Archive for December, 2009

Hearing As WE End One

Posted: December 29, 2009 in change
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2009 comes to a close in a couple of days.  I think it is a great time of the year to do private and personal introspection, slowing down just long enough to make sure we are exactly where God would have us be.  I am convinced that decisions like Urban Meyer made this past weekend should be made more often, and more consistently all over the world.  We get complacent, lose our priorities, follow our own desires instead of God’s, and end up just becoming a fairly effective leader in whatever it is we are doing.

This happens whether we want it to or not.  As proven in Urban’s case, it’s easy to make the initial call, but then buyer’s remorse takes over……pain for wanting what we built takes over….watching what we had slip away takes over…watching the income slip away takes over.  I think ministers, though lowly paid, oftentimes, are some of the most “lame ducks” there are in the workplace.  It’s an income to most and very few are living the life of faith!  It’s too easy to do the least.  It’s too easy to lose the warrior edge and become a mouthpiece for doing what someone else thinks you ought to do.  It’s too easy to say, “I’ve fought my fight, I’m older now, and it’s time to enjoy more of what I’ve built.” That is why the end of our journeys get a little skewed and is illustrated by the likes of Bobby Bowden at Florida State.  Very few of us hear clearly enough to make the change necessary to leave while at the top of our game.

How high up you are is not the issue.  In fact, what is high?  Success is simple obedience to go to the next best place in God’s eyes; big, small, desert, sideline, press box, or complete reinvention of yourself. Don’t let anyone lie to you and convince you that it’s more or less than that.

What are you hearing this week?  Do you believe God would like to speak to you?  Slow down, listen, and see. He does!  There should be a ton of new decisions made over the next two weeks.  What will yours be?

Every now and then, in life, God chooses to cross your path with someone who somehow feels like a long lost brother or sister.  This was the case in about 1978 when I was about to attend a brand new high school and had no friends, until I met Chris.

We’ve done life together, in many different arenas, for over 30 years. We’ve had pain together, joy together, shared dreams together, served in the trenches together, encouraged each other, and even fought together.

Natural affinity is what I would describe our 30-year friendship. He and I always hoped God would use us.  We had a desire to be used, even in high school, and as it goes, now in 2009, together, we have accumulated over 40 years of doing ministry.

Since 1997, Chris has been the senior pastor for The Place of Hope. What once was a small, little sleepy church has now become a spiritual utopia for many, many people that, in the past, had never found church to be useful. Church leader, sure, but more than that, Chris has a passion for the bigger picture in life, The Kingdom of God. That comes in many different varieties for him.  His love for sports and specifically, baseball, allows him to minister weekly to college and high school baseball teams.  No doubt, that love for baseball began to develop years and years ago as his brother Denny played pro baseball for the St. Louis Cardinals.

His multi-talents are numerous as few might know that he toured the country as a young man playing bass guitar for some of America’s most gifted bands.  He can play just about any instrument there is.  What a gifted leader!  He’s loved by everybody and never meets a stranger; often the life of the party!

All that to say that God has plans for you too.  Never give up but always work hard like Chris, develop and use every gift you have, follow your dream, be authentic, and live with the eternal picture in mind, tirelessly, and watch what God will do with your passion! What a story!

  • As a pastor & leader of people I feel a great burden to give life my best shot and to model this behavior before others, but I am afraid that in the name of modeling for the world what a “good pastor” looks like, I most often do as other pastors do and just tell you most of the good stuff; The highs; The awards; The victories.
  • Consequently, when a new church planter or a leader that’s been around for a while sees ALL OF THIS SUCCESS, they wonder WTH is wrong with them because their life doesn’t look like that, so…let me just take a few seconds out to confess some things to you so that you see my life is hard. Very hard. High highs w/ lows low.
  • My wife and I have been in a bit of a rut this week (and last). I have been SUPER BUSY and have not been fully present with her, kids, house.
  • I am a terrible grad student. Period. Aptitude is not my problem. I find it boring. I’m busy and it often seems like a major waste of time.
  • I am in terrible physical condition. I use some lingering injuries as an excuse not to work out. Although I have pain – I hate working out.
  • I’m broke. Church planting is the opposite of lucrative and I spent all I had to launch Courageous Church. Proud of that, but it’s tough.
  • Our church is growing in every way possible, but will have to have some very tough layoffs soon. This breaks my heart. Epitome of suck.
  • Found out a friend of mine whose family I love has been divorced for a few weeks.
  • I say all of that to say that my life has ups and downs and takes a ton of hard work. On Twitter, etc. we sometimes make things look…. Easy with words when in reality things were really hard. I hope you see a more balanced me and appreciate it. Much love.   -Shaun King, pastor, Courageous Church

Thanks Shaun.  You described it well on behalf of all of us as church planters!

Carlos Whittaker

Posted: December 15, 2009 in Quotes
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On moving to Chicago to BE a part of the new church plant…….Soul City Church….

-But I’m just following the story that God has placed in my heart to lead my family with.

-I feel like this is the community where the next stage of growth in my family’s life will happen.

I admire this in Carlos.  He has made two very huge statements above and two that my family and I have subscribed to these years.  God does something at every juncture…He never wastes anything and especially sorrows.  Very few people do this very thing, follow the leadership of God’s spirit.  The reason it looks so odd to people is, they live a life of security.  A life of security involves very, very little faith, and the sad part of this is, these same people are hopefully going to heaven, but will not ever live the “high life” in this life like Carlos and many others through the years.

What happened to doing like the Apostle Paul did, going to the next best place?  That’s exactly what he did!  No, we look at size and prestige and security and money as the factors in determining if a person is stable or not.  Jesus was a man who was homeless, and died homeless, if you know what I mean.  Here in America, churches, employers, hiring agents, etc. would look upon Jesus as crazy, unstable, and a little off.  Wonder if they would look at us that way?  They should, IF, you are living a life of obedience.

Stuart Palmer and I have a friendship that is like very few……..he’s the real deal, with real life, real challenges, and real hope, like the rest of us. He and Nancy received some news early this year that would forever change their lives…….their new baby girl that Nancy is carrying has HPE. HPE, in simplicity, means, that there is no development in the brain. They have embraced this with dignity and grace and are using Romans 8:28 very rapidly. They have formed a new foundation called Kara’s HOPE, of which you and I can be a part of. If you have interest, please take a read:  http://karashope.weebly.com/

How Do You Last In Ministry?

Posted: December 9, 2009 in Quotes
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How Do You Last In Ministry?

By Rick Warren

Ministry is a marathon: it’s not how you start in ministry; it’s how you finish. If you look at 2 Corinthians 4:1-18, Paul gives seven suggestions for finishing the race:

(v. 1) Remember God’s mercy: God has given us our ministries. We don’t have to prove our worth through our ministry, and we don’t have to wallow in our mistakes. You don’t have to earn your place as a pastor or leader in the church.

(v. 2) Be truthful and honest in all you do: Maintain your integrity because integrity produces power in your life, while guilt zaps your energy. You need to finish with your character intact. Your integrity includes how you handle the Word of God. Don’t distort it or make it confusing.

(v. 5) Be motivated to work for Jesus’ sake, not out of selfish desires: We need a right motivation. A lot of guys start off as servants and end up celebrities. You need to learn to live your life for an audience of one, and that one is Jesus Christ.

(v. 7) Realize that Christians are only human: We must accept our limitations, and the quickest way to burn out is to try to be Superman. Humility is being honest about your weaknesses.

(v. 15) Develop a true love for others: Churches thrive, grow and survive when love endures. You must love people or you won’t last in the ministry.

(v. 16) Allow time for inward rejuvenation: I have a motto — Divert daily, withdraw weekly and abandon annually. You need to take time for recharging. In the Air Force, they’ve mastered the art of mid-flight refueling. You can too – you don’t have to land every time you need to refuel.

(v. 17-18) Stay focused on the important things, not distracted by momentary troubles: Keep your eyes on the goal, not the problem. Only he who sees the invisible can accomplish the impossible. To be a winner in the marathon of ministerial service, Christians need to realize great people are just ordinary people with an extraordinary amount of determination. If we run from problems, we’ll never be able to become what God wants us to become.

Choosing a Successor

Posted: December 4, 2009 in Quotes
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Peter Drucker, my mentor, said you should never choose your successor. I believe that because typically what you’ll do is you’ll choose a person like yourself, and what the organization usually needs is the exact opposite of what you were, at that point. – Rick Warren

David Foster

Posted: December 2, 2009 in Quotes
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Today is another gift. I have only 4 to-dos; know God, love God, love what God loves, and do what God is blessing! let’s roll!!!  - David Foster